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An Unexpected Cancer Diagnosis

Just before Christmas my husband was diagnosed with prostate cancer. We are currently going through the steps of deciding how it should be treated and making sure it hasn’t spread. In a few days we will meet with the doctor. We are both anxious about what he is going to tell us.  

When I started this blog I wanted to always remain positive, yet I vowed to myself that I would be sincere. Everyone has diversities in life. I asked my husband if he wanted me to mention his diagnosis on my blog. He told me that this is not just his story that this is our story. We have been together over forty years. There isn’t anything that we do not deal with together. 

When we first heard he had cancer our first reaction was disbelief, how did it happen? For days we tried to analyze how he developed prostate cancer. This really was a waste of time because we’ll never know for certain. We both just wanted something to blame. Next, it was telling our children. That took a couple of weeks as we still needed to emotionally accept it ourselves. I wondered if there was a guidebook available on mentally processing a cancer diagnosis. One of those easy to read yellow books, such as Cancer for Dummies would have been useful. Either way, I saw my husband go through emotional highs and lows. We talked about it often, but I knew he was quietly struggling with the news. Then he had a dream, and this is where he found peace of heart and mind.

Daily, my husband writes a Christian Message to a group of our friends and family. I’m sharing a letter he wrote about his dream on the blog. It’s about faith and trusting God. We both agree that moving forward will take strength and no matter the outcome our faith is a powerful tool. I have formed many relationships through my blog, and I know that several of you are strong believers. Today I’m asking you to keep him in your prayers to win this battle with cancer.

A Letter from my Husband John

Over the last few years my faith has been tested many times. I know that God tests those he can use to share his messages so we have to be ready to accept any challenge he decides to send us. Life’s tribulations allow our  faith to grow stronger. During those times we are also reminded that trusting God is the one thing that we need to do the most.  

I was recently diagnosed with prostate cancer. This form of cancer may have also affected some of you or someone you know. It’s quite common in men and for the most part curable. The key is that the cancer doesn’t escape the prostrate.  I should be fine, but it is still concerning. I will be taking more tests next week to find out if the cancer has spread.

After finding out about the cancer I received a valuable message from my wife. She told me to look at all the good times you have had and will still have in life, and not focus on negativity. That I’ve been blessed with a great family and special friends that help make every challenge in life easier to overcome. Most importantly, she reminded me that we always have God on our side.   

After receiving the news from the Doctor I went through a period of self-pity and aggravation. Then, during the middle of that night, I felt God telling me:  John listen to what your wife said. Stay positive. John this time remember what you have been writing to others in your daily messages. Don’t worry. Have faith. He then told me to share a new message, He said,  John,  you wrote that God doesn’t give you more than you can  handle. He then said if you think you can’t handle it then remember this message: There is nothing that God  gives you that God  can’t  handle. He said  John I am the cure for cancer.   

Thus in the middle of the night  I was given the cure for this cancer … it’s called FAITH!

If this cancer were to take my life away on earth it still can’t beat me because I will then have a new better life in heaven. We go to Heaven to continue to work on God’s plan. God’s plan is to help others. Helping others is what I like to do most in this world so the next world will be perfect.

It seems to me the Lord often guides us through dark days so that we are ready with understanding and comfort to help  others who are troubled. We all need to provide words of encouragement for those who need to hear them. I’m ready to accept God’s challenge and  be an example that Faith Does Indeed CureCancer.  I thank God for using me to help spread this message. Keeping our faith during any trial is a powerful message to share. Sharing this message may just be your job to do to others in need.

Today’s message is not about my cancer diagnosis but to pass along the  message that was given to me to share with you: FAITH IS A CURE FOR EVERYTHING.  Thank you for reading the daily messages, I enjoy sending them. Our life experiences become more valuable when it equips us to help others. That’s why daily prayer and Bible reading are so essential.

I’m asking you for your prayers today. I have faith in the power of prayer. Thank you for your support as it helps to keep my positive outlook.

I’ll say this again, can cancer beat me? No way! I have FAITH!

If you would like to join our Daily Message E-mail Group, please leave a comment below, and I will add you to the list. Thank you

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3 Quick Tips on How to Wear Red Lipstick

3 Quick Tips on How to Wear Red Lipstick.

Fashion trends may come and go, but with the impact one makes by wearing red lipstick prove that this shade of lipstick is immortal. Below, I’m sharing 3 Quick Tips on How to Wear Red Lipstick.

Various shades of red adapt to historical events, climates, and attitudes. Did you know that during World War II red lipstick was manufactured to boost morale?

For me, red lipstick brings fond memories of my mother. I remember watching her apply her lipstick and watched how it brightened up her face and mood. A woman that wears red lipstick will no doubt make more of an entrance as opposed to a woman wearing neutral colored lipstick. If you were to take a poll, I think most women would agree that they would not leave the house without putting on some form of lipstick, gloss, or balm. Personally, I’m a fan of wearing lipstick and enjoy experimenting with several shades.

One of my favorite shades of red lipstick is Mac’s Lady Danger . I don’t know if it is the name or what. But putting on that shade of red makes me feel powerful and sexy.

3 Quick Tips for Wearing Red Lipstick

Prep

Exfoliate your lips before you apply your lipstick. A quick scrub will help to smooth over your lips. This is a great product to use during the winter months.

The winter season wrecks havoc on our lips with the cool temperatures and dry heat. This sleep mask makes your lips feel amazing. I’ve used it throughout the day and enjoy the lasting benefits.

Prime

Have you ever used a lip primer before? A saleslady at Nordstrom once told me, “it’s a crime not to prime” and you know what, she was right. As funny as that sounds, primer really is important. A lip primer will help your color last longer and go on smoothly. After exfoliating I’ll apply a primer and then put on the rest of my makeup. My lipstick always goes on last; I’ll even wait until I’m dressed so that I do not get any lipstick on my clothes.

Line

Wearing darker shades of lipstick will make your lips appear thinner. I always use a liner not just to prevent bleeding, but to also give my lips a little more volume. I look for a liner that is a similar or slightly darker shade than my lipstick. You can use a brush to help blend the liner into your lips to create a fuller lip look.

Red lipstick can add a little sex appeal to any outfit. It has a glamorous effect. I save it for the days when I’m looking to add a little pizzazz to my look. Swiping on red lipstick can make the most mundane outfit look avant-garde.  

If you are a little hesitant to try a full red lip, you can experiment with lip gloss. Typically, they are more subtle looking. You can also add a little gloss on top of your matte lip, just apply it in the center of the lower lip, to avoid the color bleeding.

Consider what you are going to wear with your lipstick. I like wearing bright colored lipsticks at the beach because I think it brightens up my face, especially if I’m wearing a big hat and glasses. I’ll also choose red when I’m wearing a solid color especially  black.  

Lastly, when wearing a red lip, I do suggest that you go minimal on your eye makeup. For example, you won’t want to mix a smoky eye with a red lip. Bold lips are just enough of a wow factor, just add a little eye liner and mascara and you are good to go.

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How to Style a Satin Midi Skirt

satin midi skirt outfits casual / fashion over 50 #over50style
satin midi skirt outfits casual / fashion over 50 #over50style
satin midi skirt outfits casual / fashion over 50 #over50style

Wearing a satin midi skirt is an easy way to update a casual outfit and doesn’t take as much effort as you think. You can let yourself have daytime fun with this fashion trend because it’s no longer reserved for evenings. The key is finding a good A-line fit because that flatters most figure types. Satin skirts come in a variety of styles with beautiful colors and patterns. The longer midi length is the most popular version.

A Casual Style with an Elegant Twist

For a casual look you can style your satin midi skirt with a cable knit sweater and booties or a t-shirt and sneakers. With cooler weather temperatures top your skirt with cozy fleece bomber jackets or a blazer.

Sweaters to Wear with a Satin Midi Skirt

Shoes to Wear with Satin Midi Skirt

Funny isn’t it, it’s 2020 and we are seeing the glam side of 70’s fashion again? Who can forget Michelle Pfeiffer in Scarface with that slinky satin slip dress? I don’t think that any of us are looking to wear anything quite that skimpy. Yet, there are satin styles women our age group can tastefully wear. I’m all about dressing with a youthful spirit however, I do not want to look like I’m trying to turn back the clock twenty years.

Three Things To Watch For When Looking For A Satin Skirt Or Dress

  1. Fit first, nothing too tight. You want it to flow when you move. Since satin isn’t too forgiving, I would recommend sizing up when purchasing your skirt.
  2. The right under garments are important. I have these slimming shorts and would recommend them to help “smooth” things over.
  3. Keep the look understated. Satin can be a little shiny so it’s best keep the rest of your outfit simple.
wardrobe staples for women over 50
leopard midi skirt

There are many beautiful colored satin dresses for those special occasions you may have coming up such as weddings and dinner parties. Skirts are more casual and can be worn at luncheons, on shopping trips, and afternoon bridal showers. Have fun with this trend as it may just spark old memories and you’ll have disco music playing in your head.   

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Hair Accessory Trends for Women

Hair Accessory Trends for Women / Hair Trends for Women over 50
Hair Accessory Trends for Women / Hair Trends for Women over 50
Hair Accessory Trends for Women / Hair Trends for Women over 50

I’m going to start right here and say that I was very doubtful about trying barrettes and bows when my daughter Brittany first encouraged me to look into new hair accessory trends. However, I think my fashionista daughter proved me wrong (again). Suddenly I was interested in giving these fun accessories a try.

Hair Accessory Trends

Many of us have days when our hair is unmanageable, styling with a hair accessory such as barrette, headband, or a headscarf, will take your hair troubles away. These hair accessories are one of the easiest ways to perk up uncooperative hair.    

If your hair is short, then this trend may need a little strategic thought, but you can still wear fashionable headscarfs, headbands, and barrettes. Keep in mind that the size of the bow or barrette should be chosen by the length and style of your hair. Meaning shorter hair equals smaller hair accessories. With shorter hair, try a small bow clipped on hair that is tucked behind one ear. Shorter hair can also wear head scarfs wrapped around your head and headbands.

With longer hair styles you can select larger ribbons, barrettes, and bows. Try wearing a bow or barrette by pulling your hair back into a low pony, or by pulling two sides up and pinning in the back. Headbands and headscarfs can be worn with or without your bangs pulled back.

Hair Accessory Trends for Women / Hair Trends for Women over 50

Hair bows and head scarfs are one of the 90’s flashbacks that the fashion industry is reintroducing. This is exactly why I was a little reluctant to wearing a bow. I did not want to look like I was living in a time capsule. That was until recently when I borrowed my daughter in laws headband with a large bow. I liked how it instantly took my all black pant suit from a conservative look to a vogue look. 

Hair Accessories are Ageless

What’s great about hair accessories is that they are without a doubt ageless. Women of all ages should not be intimidated in wearing accessories in your hair. They are not just an easy fix for those bad hair days, they are a stylish choice that enhances your outfit.

It’s not the first time we’ve fallen for fun hair accessories.

Read:>> Where to Find Topknot and Pearl Embellished Headbands

Anything you can do that gives your hairstyle a boost when it’s not cooperating is always a good thing. Why? Because it quickly solves a problem that no one else has to be aware of.   

The latest accessories come in many different materials, colors, and sizes and. The best part, you can find them at any price point. We found our headbands and barrettes on Amazon.

I think they can be worn with sophistication or give you a more fashion forward look. I have always felt that anytime hair is off your face it’s a clean pulled together look.

When To Wear Hair Accessories  

There is no limit to when you can wear them as they can be worn casually during the daytime and formally for evenings.

If you are looking for a wardrobe update but do not want to make any drastic purchases, try one of the newest hair accessories, they are fun!  

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How to Wear White Jeans in Winter

Wearing white jeans may seem tricky, but it's not. I am sharing a few styling tips on how to wear white jeans in winter for women over 50.white jeans in winter #fashionover50, #fashionover60, #agelessblogs #styleover50, #styleover60, #ontrend50, #ontrend60     #aginggracefully 
Wearing white jeans may seem tricky, but it's not. I am sharing a few styling tips on how to wear white jeans in winter for women over 50.white jeans in winter #fashionover50, #fashionover60, #agelessblogs #styleover50, #styleover60, #ontrend50, #ontrend60     #aginggracefully 
Wearing white jeans may seem tricky, but it's not. I am sharing a few styling tips on how to wear white jeans in winter for women over 50.white jeans in winter #fashionover50, #fashionover60, #agelessblogs #styleover50, #styleover60, #ontrend50, #ontrend60     #aginggracefully 
Wearing white jeans may seem tricky, but it's not. I am sharing a few styling tips on how to wear white jeans in winter for women over 50.white jeans in winter #fashionover50, #fashionover60, #agelessblogs #styleover50, #styleover60, #ontrend50, #ontrend60     #aginggracefully 

Recently, I joined a group of women on Instagram in posting about wearing winter white. I thought it would be helpful if I shared a few fashion tips on how to style white jeans in winter. First, I feel that it is very important to find a pair of white jeans that flatter your figure type. Anyone can wear white jeans, don’t be fooled with age limitations. However, when I look to purchase white jeans, I always go up a size. I feel that white is a little less forgiving than darker colors when it comes to camouflaging cellulite on your legs.

Once you find a well-fitting pair of white jeans the styling options can be numerous. Winter can seem to drag out longer than we want it to. Changing over from dark denim to white or ivory denim is refreshing, especially on dreary looking winter days.  Below are a few of my personal favorite ways to wear white denim.

Tops & Jackets to Wear with White Jeans

  • A bulky oversized neutral colored sweater paired with brown or tan boots. Purses and coats in similar or shades of tan and brown bring it to a more monochromatic look which to me looks classy  
  • Grey is another complimentary color to wear with white denim in winter. Your shoes and other accessories in black or tan will keep in all looking harmonious.   
  • Dark Denim shirts are fool proof with white jeans and with this combo you can go with black, tan, or brown shoes and purses

Shoes

Depending on the weather you can where boots, tennis shoes, loafers, or even wellies.

I like a monochromatic look so my personal favorite would be to wear a light tan or camel colored type coat with your denim. You might want to add a little contrast and experiment by adding a bright color such as red. You can do this with a red lip, a red statement boot. If color isn’t for you then navy accents always look great with white jeans.

Forever in blue jeans was a hit song but it’s not meant for fashion trends. Do not be afraid to wear white jeans in winter. They are basically just another pair of jeans in your closet. Enjoy changing up your darker shades of denim for the lighter shades as we anxiously await winter to end.

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Vacation Packing List Essentials

If you are planning a warm weather trip soon, there is a lot to consider while packing your suitcase. I have put together a list of vacation packing essentials to help guide you on packing for your upcoming trip. Often, we leave behind clothing that would have worked better than what we brought on our trip. A little consideration can help prevent wardrobe mishaps. However, as vacations always go, unexpected surprises leave us with great stories to tell. Here are a few helpful suggestions to prepare yourself for a warm weather getaway.

vacation packing guide// what to pack on vacation
white cover up// panama hat// black swimsuit// Light Pink Shirt// White Denim// Headband
White Crochet Coverup//Patterned One Piece // Pink Cover up// Brown Hat// Highlighter// Pink Shades// Silver Slides
Yellow Dress/ Layered Necklace// Sneakers// Straw Tote// Graphic T-shirt// Leopard Flats// Green Midi Skirt

What to pack on a Warm Weather Vacation 

Layer, layer, layer! Choose your outfits with a top layer for warmth. You’ll want clothing that can easily be removed when you no longer need it. Once the sun goes down you may find yourself wanting to throw on that extra layer.

Denim Jeans & Dresses

A great pair of jeans, with warmer weather. You can wear lighter colored denim jeans with frilly blouses, add a jacket or blazer if the night air is cool. If you’re looking for something new and on trend for 2020, I highly recommend a denim dress or a long denim skirt. You can either dress these up or down with the right accessories.

White Button Down Shirts As Cover Ups- Great for Beach to Bar Look

Dresses & Midi Skirts

Light Jacket, Blazer, Scarf

Comfortable and Trendy Shoes

Sun Protection- Hats, Sunglasses and Sunscreen!

Swimsuit & Coverup

Accessories

Start Early

Lastly, make sure to give yourself plenty of time to pack. Do not wait until a day or two beforehand. That is when you’re thinking of way too many other things you need to do before you leave.  You’re not going to be wearing the clothes you pack, so lay out your outfits ahead of time when you’re not rushed. Then place your clothes in your suitcase the night before so they won’t wrinkle.

Read: >> Where to Dine in Naples, Florida

No matter how well we prepare, unexpected changes in the weather are inevitable, and that ladies, is why we all own at least one souvenir sweatshirt.

Safe Travels!